- John Henry Spence Born De 24 1850
- Edward [Lott?] Spence Born Feb 10 1853
- William [G?] Spence Born Feb 3 1855
- Mary [?]Spence Born De 5 1859
- Alexzander [?] A. Spence Born June 8 1863
- Selmenia F. Spence Born De 14 1864
- Daniel [might be David?] M. Spence Born June 12 1867
- Lucie Jane Spence Born De 9 1869
- Walter F. Spence Born July 9 1875
- one infant Boy Born Apr 11 1858
The Spences were said to be from the Big Island area of Bedford County, and indeed, many are still there. But Andrew F. Spence didn't seem to connect to them. Why not?
On September 7, 1860, 33-year-old Andrew, 27-year-old Lucy, their sons John H (age 9), Edward J (age 6), and William A (age 3), and their 4-month-old daughter Mary C.S. were living in the northern district (Lone Pine Post Office) of Bedford County. John was attending school. Also in their household was 30-year-old Mary Sweeney, whose vocation was "serving." Was she employed by the Spences, or was she somehow kin?
A close look at the 1860 census reveals that Andrew was a stone mason who was born in New York and that his personal estate was worth $200.
Perhaps, being born in New York, he wasn't close kin to the Spences who were already in Virginia.
Andrew served in Company C of the 58th Virginia Infantry in the Confederate army—the Big Island Greys (Chilton's/Arthur's Company) of Bedford County. The ten companies in the 58th were from Amherst, Franklin, Patrick, and Rockbridge Counties. The regiment was with General Jubal Early to defend Lynchburg in mid-June 1864. Andrew must have gotten leave a few times, since Alexander was born in 1863 and Frances in 1864.
In the August 18, 1870, census for the Liberty Post Office area of Charlemont in the Northwest section of Bedford County, the family had increased. Now 4-year-old "Sylwina" (who'd later be known as Frances), 2-year-old Daniel, and baby Lucy had joined the family. John, who'd likely started his own family, was no longer living with his parents. What became of Alexander? He likely died young.
By June 2, 1880, Andrew and Lucy, along with their 15-year-old daughter Frances had moved to Buchanan in Botetourt County. Son William—now married to a Mary (who is 3 years older than he) and has three sons (Alonzo-4, Jessie-2, and baby Ira)—either lives with his parents or lives next door. William has apparently followed his father into the stone mason business. But what became of little Daniel and Lucy and Walter and the unnamed baby? Had the Spence family lost four young children in a 10-year period? Five in a 15-year-period? At any rate, half their children didn't survive until adulthood.
Living in Buchanan, Frances was now in a good position to meet William Robert Nace. They were married on December 28, 1882.
Census records aren't available for 1890, so tracing the Spence family isn't easy. Andrew and Lucy don't appear on the 1900 census. However, their son does—a 45-year-old William Spence and his 48-year old wife Mary are living in Forest in Bedford County. He now is a farmer and owns his land. They have four children at home: Maud, Walter, Bell, and Edgar.
Also, in 1900, a 47-year-old stone mason named Lott Spence lives at Charlemont in Bedford County with his 42-year-old wife Mollie T, and son and daughter. His brother-in-law, Robert Goff, lives with them. Could Lott be Edward Lott, born in 1853? It seems likely. And there's another Goff connection.
So, part of the Spence mystery is solved. But there are still some unanswered questions.
Update: Recently, thanks to the Internet and Ancestry.com, I learned that his name was actually Andrew Frederick Spence, and he was born on December 1, 1829 (or possibly 1827) in Orange County, New York. I also learned his parents' names: John Frederick Spence (who was born in Orange County, New York) and Mary Catherine Andrews.
This makes sense. He got his middle name from his father, and he named his first son John Harrison Goff. His wife was Mary Lucy Goff—the daughter of Polly Harrison and Archibald Goff, so that accounts for the two middle names. His first daughter, actually his fourth child, was named Mary Catherine (1858-1879)—his mother's name.
I was able to find his death certificate online (he died April 18, 1912 f "Euremic convulsion") and now I know he is buried in Lithia Baptist Church Cemetery, where his Nace in-laws and some of his descendants are buried.
I know he was still alive when his granddaughter Annie Pearl Nace died mysteriously in July of the previous year. That must have been hard on my great grandmother, Frances Spence Nace, to lose a child one year and her father the next.: